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A Red Carnation

Submitted by on May 5, 2010 – 4:15 am7 Comments

She was twenty-five when she got married.
She was twenty-six when she became a mother.
She was forty-one when she gave birth to me, the youngest of her six children.
She was forty-seven when she found herself exiled in a new and foreign country.
She was fifty when she became a grandmother.
She was eighty-five when she became a widow.
She was eighty-six when she became a great-grandmother.
She turned ninety-six this year.
So much life….

My family continues the Cuban tradition of wearing carnations on Mother’s Day. A red carnation if your mother is still alive and a white one if she is not.

My indomitable mother is busy making plans. She regularly has her hair done and wears bright red nail polish. At ninety-six, she is most definitely ALIVE.

I will very gratefully and with great pride be wearing my red carnation this coming Sunday.

Do you keep the Mother’s Day Carnation tradition? Please share.

Happy Mother’s Day!

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  • Sra. López says:

    She’s lovely and what a nice tradition. We don’t have a Mother’s Day Traditions. We usually just give her a present.

    As for my own household, I think I should make one up, and after some thought, I’ve decided I should be served breakfast in bed ;)
    .-= Sra. López´s last blog ..Habla =-.

  • nilki says:

    This is beautiful! I had never heard of this tradition and this year, I will be adopting it as my own. I’m going to check with my mami from Colombia to see if they have anything similar.

    I will wear my red carnation with pride and gratefulness this year (and give two to my daughter)

    Thanks for sharing this!!
    .-= nilki´s last blog ..Q&A with Tortilla Sun author Jennifer Cervantes =-.

  • Chantel says:

    We used to do this in my family when I was little. Then, we stopped one year. I think it was because my grandmother couldn’t bear to wear her white flower anymore:( Thanks for reminding me of this beautiful tradition.

  • alysa giorgetti says:

    I love it! I want a red carnation, I am giving one to my sister too. I will give a white one to my mom. How sweet, and what a wonderful tradition,great way to honor mom.Alysa

  • Maria Eugenia Aguirre says:

    Sadly, my beloved mami died in 2004. I miss her everyday. I still find it too difficult to wear a white carnation on Mother’s Day or even go to the cemetary to visit her grave. This Mother’s Day I will go to Mass, then out to dinner with my husband and son. I will think a lot of my beautiful mother and all she gave to her children. Oh how I wish she were still around to give her a bottle of Miss Dior perfume, her favorite scent. Of all God’s blessings the greatest one is a mother’s love. Happy Mother’s Day Marta!

  • Miriam says:

    Gracias for bringing back memories as a child in Cuba, it is a beautiful tradition,que pena que no se la enseñamos a la nueva generacion, que Dios bendiga a tu madre con salud.
    Yo soy la mamacita de Carrie,feliz dia de las Madres a todas.

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