Decluttering: Inside and Out

decluttering before and after

Editor’s note: This week the Tiki Tiki essays will focus on decluttering, organizing, detoxing — all the good stuff.

By Marcela Beatty

I could see myself.

I was surrounded by papers, clothes and toys. A big glass of diet coke and a package of Oreo cookies to my side.

All of a sudden, I was in tears.

Was this me?

I had emptied every drawer, cabinet and closet (looking for my passport) only to find what a mess I had been hiding. Every struggle, bad habit and carelessness hidden behind doors… yet open for me to see.

It was time for change.

Slowly, I’ve been cleaning my life.

Inside and Out.

I have sorted through every paper, every toy, piece of clothing, and piece of trash.

The 5-year-old lipstick has been thrown out… the top that I swore I would eventually wear but haven’t in the last 10 years…

My body needed it too. No caffeine, dairy, gluten, sugar, or processed food…. a whole lot of veggies is pretty much what I have been consuming.

And yoga. It’s been kicking my butt.

And less media time.

It is a detox, a cleansing, the start of new life….whatever you want to call it.

The diet has been the hardest. Some days are good, some a struggle, and some days I give in to that craving (reminding myself that I’m not perfect) only to find that it really wasn’t worth it. I have also found myself reaching for things I shouldn’t during times of stress, when I am tired or when I’m upset.

I’ve been keeping a journal and writing it down has let it come to light and I am slowly finding out how important it is for your diet to feel positive.

I have been following Whole Living’s 28 day detox plan…and somehow I was able to get through the whole plan. It’s challenging, yet you will feel amazing! I will continue with a modified plan, I owe it to myself and my family.

Some things I have learned along the way:

Happy eating. Happy cleaning. Happy yoga.

Amigas… lo merecemos!!!

Marcela Beatty, originally from El Salvador, lives in Pasadena, Ca. She publishes Culture Mami, works as an ICU nurse and raises two beautiful children with her husband.

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By Contributor on January 31, 2011 · Posted in casa + cultura

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Roxana A. Soto says:

Congratulations, Marcela! It’s awesome what you’re doing! It’s amazing how so many people I know are trying to do the same this new year!

I have been organizing and decluttering for the past few weeks too and it feels soooo good!! I’ve always been a pack rat o cachivachera because for some reason it’s really difficult for me to let go of things, stupid things that may have meant something at some point in my life, but no longer do.

I’ve pretty much gone through my closet and given away everything I didn’t wear last winter and I’ll be doing the same come summer. It feels great and it’s totally liberating. I mean, it wasn’t easy, because there’s always that part of me that says: “oh, but maybe you’ll really wear this winter!” When I really know the answer is: “No! You’ll never wear it! You hated how it looked on you from the moment you brought it home!”

Anyhow, thanks for sharing such an honest post y buena suerte a todas!
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Maura says:

Marcela, I could’ve practically written this post myself. I had the same kind of revelation. And I’m throwing out the old to welcome in the new. I’m eating cleaner, healthier and switching to almost all natural products because what we put ON our bodies is almost as important as what we put IN them, too. I’m cleaning my house, drawer by drawer, shelf by shelf, and trying to get organized. Get rid of the things I don’t need. Have more time to spend with family. And I’ve vowed to start and end every single day with a cup of homemade té de manzanilla – so far I’ve kept to it. It reminds me to stop and relax, and to keep hydrated. With these changes, I feel a lot more calm and a lot more at peace. I hope to keep it up! I hate saying it’s a new year’s resolution because, really, it’s so much more. Detoxing your life, including removing yourself from negative situations and people who give you mala vibra, can be so refreshing. It’s my new way of taking care of myself, and I am loving the de-stressed me who can think clearly and plan for each day without whining about my to do list.
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Letting Go of Clutter and Chaos says:

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Posted on February 3rd, 2011

TikiTikiBlog says:

We loved this post by @mom2miahaudrey on detoxing from the inside out:… #FF this smart woman.

Posted on February 4th, 2011

lisarenata says:

Marce I am so proud of you! I think one of the things I find the hardest is to stick to my exercise routine. I’ll be doing great going to the gym three + times a week, then I get sick (or something else happens) and I stop,or slack off and then I have trouble starting all over again. Shame on me!

15 min a day? doable. thanks!
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Posted on February 6th, 2011

mom2miahaudrey says:

RT @TikiTikiBlog: We loved this post by @mom2miahaudrey on detoxing from the inside out:… #FF this smart woman.

Posted on February 8th, 2011

Catalina says:

Marcela that’s awesome! It’s hard to make such big changes in our lives but you are doing great! I love yoga too!! When I practice regularly, I feel a wash of calmness from my mind through my body. It also helps bring awareness to what I feed my body. Hm? I need to go back to the studio. :)

Posted on February 11th, 2011